Six reasons why people might hate you.
Do you have a lot of people
who seem to have an issue or two with you for no reason?
Perhaps there are a few things you need to work on to build better relationships??
Let dive into it.
1. You do not respect people’s emotions!
There is no wisdom in building a world of prefabricated lies around another.
There is a need to be considerate of one’s emotions. Do not trigger a feeling you’re not honest about or ready to handle. Humans are emotional beings, they feel, so, they react. This is why they should be handled with much care.
If you probably own a personality that is not doing so much good to those who are lucky (or unlucky) to find themselves around you, there is a need to revisit that part of your mind and repair it.
Do you think about the effects of your actions on others before going on with it?
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2. You do not watch your facial expressions!
Sometimes people think you’re probably on the heat with them because of a certain face you keep around them… Always looking exhausted, frustrated, angry and all the bad emotions.
You need to change that face
I’m not talking about changing your facial structure through surgery or using too makeup because some nobody thinks you’re not good looking.. I’m talking about the unfriendly looks you might be wearing that definitely scares people away.
You would agree that even you wouldn’t love to be around the all scary face person. It’s bad for relationships
Keep a face that ‘lives peaceably with all men’. One that you can be approached with.
3. You do not watch the tone you use on people
Your tone matters a lot. Not your ringtone! ( Oh probably that could matter too, lol) The tone you use when talking.
An angry, too serious, manipulative, seductive, or too sarcastic tone is not healthy to have around
There is a need to work on the tone you use in addressing a person.
Use the right tone for the right situations and people (strangers, family, employees, buddies, etc)
- You do not watch the jokes you make!
Everyone loves a funny person. In fact, jokes have a way of colouring the mood of everyone in the room. However, it could create a reverse effect if not handled well.
Avoid jokes that belittle others, mock a known challenge or a body defect, incite anger or reveal too much about your target. - You are all about you!
Me, myself and I.
Those three words have been proven to be the best relationship breaker of all times.
Learn to put into consideration the feelings of others in whatever action you seek to take.
Selfishness is not a friend when it comes to relationships.
Six reasons
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